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Hey Mama

Some thoughts, feels, and laughs about this pregnancy, birthing, and mommying thing. Let's work on thriving together.

Let's Talk About...Sex BABY (part one)

Is this normal? Why could I care less about sex? Why do I always feel too tired? Is there something wrong with me? Will it always be like this? Are those questions you’ve asked yourself while pregnant when your partner brings up the very hinting idea of sex? Could you care less if you ever had sex again? Do you miss feeling like hormone raging teenager? You’re not alone. :)

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Betsy Finchum
Isaac's Birth Story

In honor of my eldest’s 4th (WUTTTT) birthday rapidly approaching on June 3rd, I thought I’d share his birth story with you. Both my boys’ story were not at a all what I had anticipated, but they’re both the best surprises I’ve ever had. 

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Betsy Finchum
But What If?

"For Brennen and I, we chose to announce right out of the gates, because for us, if something did happen, I wanted to be surrounded by support. I would want my baby’s life to be known, seen. That they existed. That they were real. I wanted to let other people form an attachment with the child, whether or not they survived. 

So all that to say, suddenly I found myself in an entirely different, yet similar scenario this past week..."

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Betsy Finchum